Of course, the opposite of good Judgement is bad Judgement. Are we involved for the wrong reasons? Is it lust, is it blindness because of intense sexual chemistry? I can’t assume any of us would disagree that the desire to be loved is often acted out sexually. It’s the attention no matter how short or long the experience is that fills empty space. But, it remains an incomplete relationship. Take a step back to examine your situation– you might find it isn’t the person; it is a distraction that you’re (we’ve all been) attracted too. But that burns out quickly. It is the time to quit hiding behind what’s familiar, these “love” affairs and anticipate real love, starting today.