“The one” isn’t one you look for.
“The one,” is a fantasy.
“The one” is just the decision you make.
“The one,” is the distance between imagination and reality.
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September 4, 2015 at 16:19
Eisele, that last line is incredible!
September 6, 2015 at 10:59
Thank you very much. This came out of a conversation with a very close friend, who is on the hunt for that special someone
September 30, 2015 at 19:40
Thank you Rita! Please, Keep reading.
September 5, 2015 at 14:51
Love this one bro!
September 6, 2015 at 11:01
Tigran, very happy to see you back! Thank you for your continued support. I hope my words will continue to move you.
October 16, 2015 at 23:53
Woke up this morning and definitely needed to read this. Eisele, Thank you again 🙂
October 30, 2015 at 08:47
Ryan, you have been the inspiration for so many of the piece about love. I very much enjoy our conversation, because this is that they turn into!
November 15, 2015 at 15:03
In otherwords, the one is a compromise. Interesting. Aren’t the compromises we put in others so telling of ourselves as individuals?
December 2, 2015 at 09:50
Andy, It’s my belief that we all do eventually compromise for the sake of love- fearful of the feeling/being alone. But, that often isn’t before we grow up, having had every quasi-campy-Disney rom-com shoveled in our faces. Telling us what a man should be to a woman and what a woman should be to a man. Telling us that love is something perfect rather than teaching us it simply- undoubtedly isn’t. We begin to create these lists that detail character and personality traits the one person we are to love until death should have. Many of us do find that “one,” but it’s the one who is a tad obsequious and bends to meet every need of the alpha (yes, both men and women can be categorized alpha). Until the previously mentioned “one” realizes they’ll have lost them self in the process- leaving that person who made them change. And yes, very much yes. Many of us frequently place the pressure of being “perfect” on others, mainly because we know it’s something we could never be. Unfortunately, I am guilty of this.
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